I’m Dr. Blake Suzelis, and you are looking for tips or even the process of how to beat cancer. First of all, I know the fear, the desperation, the apathy, and all the emotions in between that you experience after being diagnosed. You are afraid of losing everything. You are afraid of disappointing those who you leave behind because you can't protect them anymore. You are worried about what it feels like at the moment of death and what is beyond it. I get it because I've experienced it all after my cancer diagnosis in 2021.
On my healing path, I realized that my relationship to cancer was leading me to ask the wrong question. Due to the primitive, emotional, animalistic brain, humanity has been stuck in survival mode. When Darwin brought up the idea of survival of the fittest, we all bought into the belief that all of life is a competition, which validated our experience. Unfortunately, competition locks us into fear in our animalistic brain with no way to evolve out of it. Asking the question, "how do I beat cancer" keeps us stuck in the competition against cancer. Stuck in fear. To heal your body, you must evolve out of your fear-based survival brain. Eventually you will being asking the question, what does cancer have to teach me? Cancer does not have an agenda. 90% of the time, cancer is just communicating that you have been chronically avoiding the body’s messages…and now you can’t avoid the message any longer. It’s like ignoring the oil light on your car until the car stops working as smoke billows from the engine. Therefore, you must change your relationship to cancer. Embrace what it has to teach you.
You are a multidimensional being. Meaning, your thoughts, beliefs, emotions, behaviors, and relational strategies all influence your experience of reality. If you desire to experience a different reality you must become a different version of yourself. This means that you must shift all of the dimensions of Self to realign to someone you want to be, creating the experience of reality you desire.
Relational strategies (avoidance, accommodation, competition, compromise, or collaboration) are just one aspect of the shift. Your relationship to cancer is likely the same strategy you use for the majority of life. Everything in life is relationship. Therefore, you must shift your overall relational strategy if you desire healing.
Your goal is unity through collaboration.
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